MEN ARE HUMANS TOO!

Sis, MEN ARE HUMANS TOO! They also deserve to be spoilt, babied, pampered and taken care of! I don’t understand how society has evolved to a point where some women have lost their sense of reasoning! They see men as SUPER HUMANS, ATM, POVERTY ESCAPE SCHEME etc. Who told you men have the ability to handle every financial burden you throw at them? And even if they do, who told you they don’t want supportive partners too? Who told you they don’t also need a shoulder to lean on?

Since when did money become the first criteria in choosing a life partner? What is this unnecessary pressure for? How can you say you love a man but you cannot support him? I don't mean supporting him with what's between your legs, else you're not different from a random whore. All you’re interested in is the benefits you stand to gain. You shower him with praises only when he gifts you. But when his ATM card declines, you cannot slide in yours and not ask for refund. You're shameless!

Some of you ladies have dysfunctional mentality. You put burdens on others, same burdens you cannot bear! You run to him when you’re in need but you don’t expect him to do same. Who made it a rule that women should be receivers? You want an all paid vacation trip on a yacht but you cannot invite him out for dinner, and all bills on you!

The subject of LOVE is SACRIFICE, but it is only applied when it’s YOU in the picture! But when it’s him, you lose your ability to do same! How do you say you love a man but you can’t join resources or support him to achieve anything! You crave an elaborate wedding but everything expenses is on him. Your own is to flaunt the money you didn’t work for, you're just out there looking for a ready-made man and still demand his loyality and commitment.

YOU ARE A GOLD DIGGER with a wooden spade. Who told you that even the rich men don’t want a woman who can go out of her way to do things for them without them asking. You’re so selfish and gullible that all you think about is how to take from them. Responsibilities your fathers could not bear, you want to kill these young men with it, just because he is in love with you! Haba na! Who raised you? 

You have no investment ideas to help him grow the money he has. Your principal ideas is how to squander it the money he works for. Why not focus on making the money you're looking to take from another, all in the name of "LOVE." Financial freedom is not gender based! If your dream man comes along, do you think you will be his dream woman too? Or you think men don’t have the kind of women they desire too?

To you, his money is OUR MONEY, but your money is YOUR MONEY! You hoard all your little money to yourself but you want to finish his own, greedy soul! You’re in his house 24hrs in 7 days when he's loaded, but once things gets tight on for him, you automatically become so busy! 

Money only impress lazy girls. When a woman works hard a man's wealth is an added bonus not a ladder to upgrade! © Debbie_Paul